Review: Secrets of Advanced, Irresistible Attraction

Review: Irresistible Attraction

Recently, Ross Jeffries has been offering shorter products to address specific concerns that people have (applying certain techniques, overcoming fear), and in that vein this is a short DVD from Ross Jeffries and Speed Seduction. It is cheaper than usual Speed Seduction products, coming in at $49.95 and it’s one DVD containing information edited down from seminar work. The last complete seminar DVD that Ross produced was in 2002.

The DVD contains four chapters and a bonus section. It focusses on the “demonstration” and “signal recognition” technology that was introduced in the Hyperresponse videos, but in a more compact matter and with less thorough explanation than was in those DVDs. This is more of a demonstration product, to show how the entire process would look.

Introduction: The introduction includes visual and feeling process demonstration with anchoring and escalation (turning up the feelings and emotions so that they are more powerful).

Scenarios: The second part focuses on presenting scenarios, recognizing responses and anchoring those responses.

Using Her Responses: This part focuses on the process of feelings and how those feelings flow. These are some good demonstrations, and the woman shows a strongs response to Ross Jeffries techniques.

Turn It Up: The fourth part has to do with increasing those feelings and responses and making them more powerful, using techniques like language, visualisation and anchoring. Ross also discusses the idea of “illusory participation”, making women feel that they are a part of, and involved in the process, so that there is less resistance to it.

The bonus DVD is about physical touch and has a little bit on massage and energy centres, using the same kind of process and anchor techniques previously explored in the DVD.

If you’ve seen the Secrets Of Hyper-Response And “Core-Attraction” DVDs (The Palo Alto Seminar) DVDs, then this won’t be earth-shattering material for you, but applying the concept of SRT or Signal Recognition Technology is very advanced within this program.

Even though Ross’ marketing material announces that this material is “not for beginners” in actuality this has less to do with the fact of how effective the material is, and more to do with the fact that there is a lack of context and explanation on the process of the techniques. There is little explanation on applying the techniques within a seduction frame. This is not an introductory Speed Seduction DVD, this is for someone who knows the ideas and structures behind the process and wants to see them demonstrated using real women. Someone new to Speed Seduction won’t really understand what is happening, and it will be difficult for them to follow this DVD and recreate the process, which is why the DVD warns against beginners using the product.

If you are used to the Mystery Method style of approaching women, and you primarily meet women in nightclubs or high-energy environments, then this product might not be for you, because it requires a kind of focus and attention on the part of the woman that you might (ok, almost definitely won’t) be able to find in the clubs, and if you’re already having success with this SRT and demonstration kind of seduction technology, then this might be a little redundant for you.

On the other hand, if you watched the Palo Alto seminar, and want to see this material being demonstrated in a more real context with real women, then this is for you.

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Review: Secrets Of Hyper-Response And “Core-Attraction” DVDs (The Palo Alto Seminar)

Review: Secrets Of Hyper-Response And “Core-Attraction”DVDs (The Palo Alto Seminar)

This course is also known as the “Palo Alto Video course” because of the fact that it’s on a recording of the September 2002 Palo Alto Speed Seduction Seminar. The course included 11 CDs, 7 VHS tapes, and a courseware book (more recently Ross’ products have been converted to DVD, so now it’s a 7 DVD and 11 CD set). The course CDs and tapes have a good production quality, although it’s sometimes hard to hear what the students are saying, Ross makes sure to repeat their questions and address them so that we get all the important information.

This course is billed as the next level of Speed Seduction technology, and Ross does a good job of describing how the new model of Speed Seduction has evolved from the old model and past courses. I would say a big fundamental difference is that rather than a kind of one size fits all approach (learning certain patterns and lines), it’s more of a flexible model (using what responses a woman gives you to find her roadmap on how to properly seduce her). Although Ross deemphasizes using memorized patterns in this seminar, he still explains where they can fit into the overall process, so if you’ve already memorized patterns then you can still use them, and if you hate rote memorization then you can still find success with this new model.

If anyone has read Neil Strauss’ “The Game” and heard about the “Octoberman Pattern” (the ultimate, unspoken, super secret pattern for creating a deep attraction to you), the technology and structure for the “Octoberman Pattern” is very similar to what’s taught in these DVDs.

The first tapes (Day 1)focus on altering your beliefs and optimizing them so you can effectively learn and apply the information, and Ross provides everyday examples that are easy to relate to. Ross does some one-on-one change work with a couple of guys who were having problems with approaching, and you see the guys immediately have positive improvements. Ross helps build and emphasize the frame that you are the one doing the choosing and being the selector, and you are deciding whether you want to pursue things or not. This kind of frame and outlook isn’t as emphasized as much in the old Speed Seduction courses. This is a powerful way of interacting with women, and is the frame that most naturally charismatic guys have.

The second tapes (Day 2) see Ross going into the new Speed Seduction model, which focusses on elicitation, self-anchors, and making use of a woman’s familiar and old ways of thinking and how to shift them into a new way of thinking. He explains how to uses demonstrations to get women more willing and eager to be involved in the whole seduction process, rather than being a more passive participant. He also explains how to set-up and gain rapport before the demonstration process, so that it seems more natural. He also covers the process of creating filters, so that a woman has a positive strong perception of you, and as a means of supporting and further techniques that you might use.

Day 3 shifts from eliciting values and demonstrations into sexual leading. Ross covers how many parts of his new model are used to establish yourself as an attractive male, such as challenging her self-image, establishing authority, and evoking strong processes.

The two big changes from the old BHSC are basically “demonstrations” and “signal recognition”. “Signal recognition” is just finding out the processes that women go through when they fall in love, feel attraction, etc., and then the “demonstrations” portion is taking those feelings, amplifying them, and linking them to you.

The best way to use this materials is to read the coursebook if you’re not already familiar with NLP or SS, then watch the tapes and take notes, then listen to the CDs at night to help the material and information sink in. If you listen to the CDs a lot, you’ll find yourself more easily able to use the techniques. Then, of course, go out and practice the materials.

I highly recommend this product, for both beginners who are having real problems with just approaching women, and even for advanced students of seduction.

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Speed Seduction: Is it right for you?

Is Speed Seduction Right For You?

Speed Seduction is marketed as a course that can be used by people of any age, regardless of their background or previous success with women. That is true, but there’s a few questions you have to ask yourself to determine if Speed Seduction is really right for you.

1. Where do you sarge/meet/approach women?: If you’re interested in meeting women in bars and clubs, then you might need to also study Mystery Method and get some experience on approaching women effectively in bars and clubs. Combine Mystery Method with Speed Seduction and you are going to be amazingly effective in the clubs.

Ross Jeffries admits that he doesn’t do a lot of his sarging and approaching in bars, and tends to meet them in places like coffee shops and yoga classes, where the women are more plentiful and the odds are more in your favour.

2. Do you have good tonality/speaking patterns?: A lot of people aren’t conscious about how their voices sound. They hear themselves on answering machines and go “Who the hell is that guy?” You have to be conscious of how you are speaking. Especially with Speed Seduction, if your tonality isn’t good, then you can come off as a little creepy. You can search Google for “vocal tonality exercises” and Neil Strauss has a lot of good information on improving vocal tonality in his book “Rules of the Game”.

Here’s a few quick tips: Record yourself talking, and notice all the nervous pauses like “umm…ahhh..eh…”. Speak again, and be conscious of eliminating those pauses. Another thing is that people will often have a kind of rising, questioning tone at the end of their statements, like they aren’t really sure. Try to eliminate that questioning tone and inflection, so you come off as more sure and authoritative.
3. Do you have good body language: Work on improving your posture and the way you hold yourself. Eliminate fidgety movement. Stop bouncing around so much when you talk. Let your voice be animated not your body.
4. Are you intelligent?: Although Ross is extremely good at explaining his techniques and technology, if you’re not the brightest light then you might have a problem applying this information. It’s not really for dummies.
5. Are you funny? Do you have a good sense of humour?: Some people don’t have a sense of humour. Don’t be “the man that fun forgot”. Take stand-up comedy, improv classes to improve your timing and the way you respond to the unfamiliar scenarios and situations. Speed Seduction requires that kind of humour and carefree attitude, or else, again, you can kind of come off as creepy.
6. Have you seen Tyler Durden’s 25 points post?: One of the best posts ever made on the mistakes that guys make when going out and meeting women. Here it is, in it’s entirety http://www.venusianartsforum.com/showthread.php?t=9

If you’ve mastered all these areas, then definitely Jeffries has a lot of things it can teach you to help improve your game and the success you have with women.